Scripting for Joy
I’m not much of a “quiet meditator” . . . I prefer the active kind where I am cycling or hiking, either by myself or thinking through something out loud with a friend. I’m not sure if that’s right or wrong, but I certainly get more epiphanies and enjoyment from my active meditation.
I’ve also been a big journaler all my life. Writing helps me process things. A few years ago, I went to a Joyce Rennolds class about “scripting.” It’s pretty simple. You script out what you want and feel the sense that you are there experiencing it as you write or re-read it. Its an amazing way to leverage the law of attraction for positive change in your life. I was so excited to learn about scripting because it is an active form of meditation.
Scripting precipitated a big decision to invest in mountain cabins with my sister 6 years ago. Scripting drove my journey to get me to those mountains full-time. And scripting continues to shape my future as I envision the next change in my life.
Recently I sat down to script about my future. I didn’t want to focus on what’s wrong right now, and I didn’t want to get attached to how I wanted things to happen, so I took a section of my current day at work that I already enjoy and built upon it in my imagination. I love the quiet morning by myself at the coffee shop preparing for the day. I love the smell of fresh ground beans, the “coffee house” music and setting up processes that will help me serve people quickly and efficiently during the morning shift. I love seeing the regulars and having their drinks or bagels started as they walk in the door. I love catching up with new friends and sharing the first moments of their day with them.
So when I sat down to script, I took that scenario and expanded it, adding specific events that would make it even better and create the future I desire. I know that the world is at work crafting the details of the next steps in my life. And it brings me joy to imagine it, even if it doesn’t play out exactly as I have scripted. Scripting helps me discover the essence of what makes me happy, and sets things in motion to bring more of it into my life. If you like a more active form of meditation, you might enjoy this process.
Prevent Inner Killjoy – Take a Spiritual Shower
See if this sounds familiar: Life is coasting along like a souped-up tricycle when out of nowhere… CRASH! You’re knocked over by a nasty twist of fate – a little monster I call, the “inner killjoy”. The inner killjoy is your own personal party pooper either you unwittingly create or pick up elsewhere like a germ. Violently, the inner killjoy drags you through unhappy chaos. It tends to happen in threes, if you haven’t noticed. Before you know it, you’re angry, frantic or worse, you’ve taken it out on someone dear.
One Monday, I met up with my inner killjoy after a prolonged, appreciated absence. Round two with this insipid force and my immediate thought was, “Can I not catch a break?” My next thought was, “These things happen in threes! There’s one more coming!” That last thought ushered in an escalation.
Joy disappeared along with sanity. I just wanted my joy back!
Two things I learned about its wrath. #1: Flailing about won’t rescue me and; #2: Most times, neither will my conscious mind. There is however, a power from within that can; a formula for keeping my joy. The formula and the prevention are the same: dedicated quiet time.
Most start their day off with a shower followed by the morning news, a little breakfast and a mad dash off to work. For me, it’s meditation first. Meditation or quiet time all accomplish the same purpose. They insert a sanity buffer between getting up and getting out the door. It preps the mind with a spiritual shower. As I heard someone say, we take a shower to wash off street muck from our bodies, so why wouldn’t we cleanse our minds as well?
Taking a daily spiritual shower makes energy ripe for a higher frequency. Even five minutes of dedicated stillness puts my thoughts in “time out” and gives me the ability to rest in that sweet spot where energy expands. Over time, it offers indescribable peace and connection. It allows for all that is. And the best part: I get to keep my joy.






